Online Dating Shortcuts

If you’re currently a member of an online dating site, you’re not alone. With dozens and dozens of sites out there, it’s translating into millions and millions of profiles.

With that in mind, how does one survive as a small fish in a little pond whether it’s sex or love that you’re looking for?

Well, if you know how to play the game right, you’ll start having much better results than the millions out there who don’t and then simply give up.

For starters, you should know that with most online dating sites as well as the adult dating and adult personals sites, the more you log on, the more times your profile will be pushed “to the very top” of the lists. That means more expose for YOU as an online dating member.

Another online dating shortcut: make a point of checking the new members section every day (even more frequent if possible). This way you get first dibs at the “fresh meat” before anyone else.

Sometimes, online dating sites will have special surveys were you get to write in about your experiences with dating, etc. This is another way to get noticed on the entire site because they’ll often post maybe four or five submissions along with your screenname, photo, and link to your online dating page. That cute girl next door may be looking and be interested enough to ask to meet you!

Most dating sites have ways of sending members an “instant email of interest” to someone you’re interested in. A lot of members will receive these and usually ignore them. If you just send them a regular email to begin with, you’ll have a better shot at getting a reply.

Now in regards to your email, your notes should be original and not just cut and pastes. Women have been doing online dating long enough to know the difference between a cut and paste and an original note.

If you want a response back, write something original, not a generic “Hi I’d like to meet you” type of note. Those notes may have worked way back when, but they simply don’t anymore.

Another shortcut online  dating tip: instead of sending an email to another member on the service and waiting for them to pick it up, why not just send them an Instant Message and get to connect with them one on one: live!

Sites like SexSearch have this feature and it makes the getting to know you process a lot faster. And besides who knows…

small talk could turn into some pretty good cyber sex. J 

Finally, another online dating secret is to simply cut to the chase with women. You’re not on here to find email buddies, right? You’re here to find pussy! So when you correspond with one, be the man and make things happen.

If you start to get the run around, just become playful with them (“Oh, you’re a SCARED little girl to meet me cause you know you can’t handle me.) Egg them on and changes are they’ll instead want to take you up on your challenge.